Saint, I'm Not

I think it's a childish and immaturish act to badmouth people, be it friends, ex - lovers, colleagues and family. When a person is sore over a certain matter, to make themself feel good, they just have to say stuffs which will put them in a feasible position as the victim. Just recently, I received a comment via sms (I won't disclose who the person is but some of my friends know) which said "with your character, do you think you'll have friends? I don't think you can have a career too". Before that, there was a string of smses and I have to particularly point out this "I'm doing this out of goodwill, lending you my book but it seems like you don't want to return me my book." Ironically, I still have books with that person and it's not returned yet. "My friends have told me about your character". Well, how well do your friends know me where I don't even know them at all.

In the past, I'll retaliate but I don't see how such a statement can put me off. Firstly, I don't think you've enough to judge whether my career is going smooth. If yours is, how come you're changing jobs after working for a mere 4 months? Secondly, my friends are close knitted and we are very supportive of each other. Though we may not meet us as often but we stil have a lot to talk about.

I'm not posting an entry to clarify matters. I'm sure my close friends will still be supportive and stand up for me. Sometimes, it takes a change in event to actually see a person's true colors. Judgement can never be place purely on impression because we'll never know if all this while, the person is just puting on an act.