It's A Mistake.

Is responsibility self taught or should parents play a role in teaching responsibility? How simple it is to shirk responsibility by claiming whatever that was done was a mistake. I used to think by admitting to a mistake, I claim responsibility but I don't need to make amends for it.

How important is responsibility?

For instance, I can just go fuck around, be promiscuous. When something happens and I shrug it off by saying "It was a mistake", what am I telling people, friends around me? Am I an irresponsible person?

Or our society has subtly told us that it's alright to fuck around with anybody - just as long caution is taken. Of course, caution itself may be taken as a form of responsibility because I don't want to be a disease carrier and neither would I want any accidents (if you all know what I mean).

How come responsibility is not taken in the form of not engaging in a promiscuous lifestyle?

What exactly is consensual sex? If I lay in bed and got fondled. I didn't make any sign of retaliation, does it imply to the opposite party I'm willing to do it? Even for married couples, does the wife have to the right to reject her husband's sexual desires? Or is it that, since they are already married, sex is automatically consensual?

How about between couples, even with strangers? Do friends engage in no strings attached sexual activities? How and when exactly does the consensus takes place? As long as either one never gave a hint of declination, it is ok?

What is right and what is wrong? As long as our morals and values are not challenged, it is always right?